No offense but if you ever did me wrong don’t hmu years later asking for forgiveness, I’ve moved on. If it’s still eating you alive you need to find it in you to forgive yourself
but if you really moved on, you should just be able to forgive them?
I’m about to sound batshit
But some times people ask for forgiveness outwardly because they’re afraid of looking inwardly, idk if this makes sense but in my mind you need to learn how to forgive yourself. You need to sit w yourself and come to terms w what you did. Me forgiving you isn’t gonna rid you of that burden or that guilt. Don’t come to me because you feel like shit hoping that I’ll reassure you that I’m alright and that I’ve moved on, you need to find a different way to heal cause I’m not giving you that